tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post3561750404551015248..comments2023-10-04T12:17:48.643-04:00Comments on The Rocking Pony: School Days Aren't Always GoldenKarenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09037928148778848386noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-33727234194640969402008-02-09T09:17:00.000-05:002008-02-09T09:17:00.000-05:00GO MAMA BEAR!!! You reminded me of my teaching da...GO MAMA BEAR!!! You reminded me of my teaching days...........You have rights--tons of them. I am a former teacher--from a school that was not even mainstreamed, much less included, and we had to send kids with special needs out of district as well. <BR/>I didn't understand it then, but do now, why a couple of parents fought tooth and nail to keep their children in the regular classroom--with a special ed teacher co-teaching with me and doing individual pullouts in her own classroom. THE PARENTS made that happen--and all of a sudden the school was mainstreamed and the special ed teacher found herself a full time job. HUGE court case and tons of time and pain for the teachers and admin., but the mom didn't care--her son came first...and now that I am a mom I totally get it. <BR/><BR/>go mama bear! You can do whatever you want--cookies or not--to protect and serve your own families needs--and with your own private army, that school had better watch out! <BR/><BR/>LOVE THIS BLOG!!!!!!!<BR/><BR/>btw, my aunt just celebrated birthday 52--she has DS as well.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15601254307978094781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-77386217182127469152008-02-08T22:51:00.000-05:002008-02-08T22:51:00.000-05:00I know every state and school district are a bit d...I know every state and school district are a bit different, but can they legally decide that he "automatically" gets sent to another district? Seems like he should be given the opportunity to go to school right there in the district he's currently in - isn't that part of the "Least Restrictive Environment" from the NCLB Act? Kayla is also in a DD preschool, but it's part of the public preschool and they also have peer models - typically developing kids too. I'm told that she'll go right into Kindergarten next fall and there doesn't seem to be any discussion of needing to send her to another district. It's all so confusing though; I hope you get things figured out!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02441176684416139172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-30671360741937644742008-02-08T18:32:00.000-05:002008-02-08T18:32:00.000-05:00I'm behind again, but I hope the meeting went well...I'm behind again, but I hope the meeting went well. I don't know Micah for real or anything, but what I do know about him, any school would be lucky to have him (and his mom) as a part of their school.Cecily Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01833641996572085518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-28123520441401985212008-02-08T16:14:00.000-05:002008-02-08T16:14:00.000-05:00Yes, hopefully this bigger school, while not with ...Yes, hopefully this bigger school, while not with his siblings, will be able to provide all the support that Micah needs. Certainly better than how our crappy county has the schools setup here. My girlfriend teaches 4th grage and had a special needs student in her class, except that whomever decided to put this child in a "mainstream" class didn't evaluate her, because in 4th grade she couldn't tie her shoes and could barely get herself dressed after using the washroom, and actually still needed some help in the washroom, and she couldn't read. While my girlfriend didn't mind helping her, she still had 20-something other students and no aide or helper. I know my girlfriend had to throw a fit in her principal's office to try and get this student the help she needed. Unfortunately this isn't an uncommon event. Don't know why we don't try to do what PA counties do.<BR/>Either way, I hope it all works out for the best.Wineplzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12412881827548705342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-62754459160754592292008-02-07T22:33:00.000-05:002008-02-07T22:33:00.000-05:00Well. it's looking like your boy won't end up in t...Well. it's looking like your boy won't end up in the armpit so that's good. Anyhow, no one can force you to go there. I'm all with you on remaining calm and having support, and trying to get on the same page with everyone. My boys ended up in a special kindergarten at a title 1 school that is an extention of the Pre-school. We love it, the class is small-12 kids with 2 aids and lots of resources motor room, speech, OT, etc. It's been great! Hope they can do something like that for your boy.Shelliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12851446861098955538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-6720834008991227422008-02-07T19:05:00.000-05:002008-02-07T19:05:00.000-05:00Being a teacher - I applaud you for taking time to...Being a teacher - I applaud you for taking time to calm down before storming in and breaking down the doors of the school. You have every right to get the education you want for your child, but thank you for doing it in the appropriate way. I hope this school will meet your expectations and give you a good feeling about sending your 'baby' to be in their hands. I have been part of many of these meetings and have seen them go in all directions. Share your side, listen to their side, stand firm on your desires and don't let them walk all over you, be nice but firm. Oh, and I sure wish someone would bring me cookies - I would be much happier and willing to do whatever that mommy wanted! ;)Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07156212038739784644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-40371800774036846552008-02-07T18:59:00.000-05:002008-02-07T18:59:00.000-05:00You go, Mama Bear!You go, Mama Bear!Fleahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03412755038083750088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-18638886318435511612008-02-07T17:02:00.000-05:002008-02-07T17:02:00.000-05:00People say I must spend all my time homeschooling....People say I must spend all my time homeschooling. I don't spend half as much time homeschooling as most people do dealing with the school system! Good luck.Suburban Correspondenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11488916572135296650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-12936431510344675022008-02-07T16:39:00.000-05:002008-02-07T16:39:00.000-05:00Hope the meeting goes well. The cookies are a gre...Hope the meeting goes well. The cookies are a great idea. You have to be your own advocate and fight for what you believe. Good luck!OHmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12712111068636100187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-18300564646357423522008-02-07T14:47:00.000-05:002008-02-07T14:47:00.000-05:00good luck at the meeting. sounds like you don't n...good luck at the meeting. sounds like you don't need luck. you've got cookies!<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://www.oneswiftclick.typepad.com" REL="nofollow"> blog </A>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-10734936459531886522008-02-07T14:37:00.000-05:002008-02-07T14:37:00.000-05:001. I think I know which "big" city you are referri...1. I think I know which "big" city you are referring to and if so, I have heard great things about the schools. A friend of mine was a First Grade teacher there until she was lured away by bigger money in a different state. Her class was a blended needs class and she was certainly given the resources and assistance needed to do the best job possible. It just might work out if that is where Mr. Micah ends up.<BR/><BR/>2. I swear. If you need somebody to do some cussing, just let me know.<BR/><BR/>3. Darn you people and your ability to find the Diet Chocolate Cherry Dr. Pepper! I drink soda maybe once a week and would LOVE the taste of a cherry tootsie pop for that occassional veer off the watery path.Burgh Babyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09123901504643963583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-57431854080379721402008-02-07T14:33:00.000-05:002008-02-07T14:33:00.000-05:00I so appreciate all your well wishes. I don't min...I so appreciate all your well wishes. I don't mind the larger district because it DOES have better resources and things that our tiny school just can't provide. As much as I'd like him with his siblings, it's really for his good. And I really am going in with an open mind. Our school has the BEST principal in the entire world and he's so very understanding. But so help me, if he renigs on the larger district thing and threatens to send M to the armpit school (smaller than our district!)...Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09037928148778848386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-75655730125423314972008-02-07T14:26:00.000-05:002008-02-07T14:26:00.000-05:00Good luck sweetie....That's good thinking to go in...Good luck sweetie....That's good thinking to go in with a more level head. I hope all goes well. Keep us posted!Momisodeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06752015177628948631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-56296002285124333742008-02-07T14:24:00.000-05:002008-02-07T14:24:00.000-05:00I think one thing to consider is not to look at it...I think one thing to consider is not to look at it as who is on what side. You all have the best interests of your child in mind, but have different ideas about how to get there. My DH worked for years as a school psych, and I can't tell you how many times parents came in irate with something or other, and expected him to be "on the other side" before listening to his opinions & experience. If your district professionals really are hostile, check around (ask other parents, and the professionals you've hired yourself) if there is a non-profit advocacy group who can help mediate & represent you.<BR/><BR/>I'd recommend addressing it instead as a collaboration, and take the meetings first as a chance to get on the same page with each other before anyone gets irate.<BR/><BR/>Depending on the population demographics of the large school they may have access to more money and better programs too-there could be a lot of benefits. Look at the teacher to student ratios too-in a small school often one teacher has tons of kids & in a larger school there are more adults per student (because of more money through title programs & special grants.) Bigger doesn't always mean diluted attention, and a bigger city almost always will have access to professional consultants that aren't available in a more rural area.<BR/><BR/>Good luck!Jennifer @ Fruit of My Handshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11479983078312955832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-58548440068825713332008-02-07T13:53:00.000-05:002008-02-07T13:53:00.000-05:00I think big districts have wonderful resources for...I think big districts have wonderful resources for special needs. And, they tend to attract great teachers cause they can afford to pay them. I'm sure you'll actually love it! Keep us posted.AnGlOpHiLe FoOtBaLl FaNaTiChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13609029982049285576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-21733451556100512782008-02-07T13:11:00.000-05:002008-02-07T13:11:00.000-05:00I'll be sending you kick a$$ vibes that everything...I'll be sending you kick a$$ vibes that everything turns out as you hope!!AutoSysGenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01182101665968215991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-45520165500989395902008-02-07T13:03:00.000-05:002008-02-07T13:03:00.000-05:00You go girl. The school district needs to learn t...You go girl. The school district needs to learn they can't mess around with mama.Snizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12609352449272402863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-76150730151825003112008-02-07T12:35:00.000-05:002008-02-07T12:35:00.000-05:00We live in a small school district too. My son's ...We live in a small school district too. My son's first grade class has 20 kids in it. But for kids with special needs, they go to school with everyone else. My friend has a son with special needs and he is asigned a "counsler" that goes with him to class. It's like his own personal teacher. But this way he gets attention and doesn't disrupt the class and so on. I think it's a great solution and it keeps all the kids together. Not a special class and all. You are a lot nicer than I would have been. I would have insisted that my son go to the school that all the rest of my kids go to and it's about time that the small school gets with the program. Sorry I will get off my soap box. You are much nicer than I am. :)Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13155749395336824191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-34492104390274651732008-02-07T12:09:00.000-05:002008-02-07T12:09:00.000-05:00You handled it like a true pro! Good luck with th...You handled it like a true pro! Good luck with the meeting.Tootsie Farklepantshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18336671002327112885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-63407606559972075982008-02-07T11:41:00.000-05:002008-02-07T11:41:00.000-05:00Good luck at that meeting! I like your idea of coo...Good luck at that meeting! I like your idea of cooling down and thinking things through before commenting to teachers/principals. Too often I get too emotional and either don't comment at all or run off at the mouth.Paula Lynn Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06815316838340973957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-29335961516287820872008-02-07T11:16:00.000-05:002008-02-07T11:16:00.000-05:00Fight, fight, fight and never give up! I know you...Fight, fight, fight and never give up! I know you won't but that makes me so mad. For all the progress we have made, we still have a long way to go to get a good education for our children. I think it is just as important to have your child with special needs at school with his siblings. A local district in our area only has certain elementary schools that take the children with special needs. I was worried ours would be the same, but when Peanut enters kindergarten she will go to our home elementary school. I've heard some things about the principal, but I'm prepared to keep an open mind until proven otherwise, then like you, mama bear in on the case, but my husband is even better at it than me. I pray it all works out for you and Micah.<BR/><BR/>BTW, last night I tried the chocolate cherry dr. pepper. It tastes like a cherry tootsie pop. I don't think I could handle very much of it. I'll stick with my vanilla coke.Debbie @ Three Weddingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11778199494515694006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-6837691032802544602008-02-07T11:14:00.000-05:002008-02-07T11:14:00.000-05:00Good Luck!! I am like you I have to sit on things ...Good Luck!! I am like you I have to sit on things for a awhile so I don't make just noises and canactually get my point across. <BR/>I love the Mama Bear thing, you go girl!!<BR/><BR/>Christinachristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15314804012623766895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-46035437602532249552008-02-07T11:00:00.000-05:002008-02-07T11:00:00.000-05:00Oh I hope it all works out in your favor. You shou...Oh I hope it all works out in your favor. You should be able to go where you want when you want. Best of luck and keep us updated.girlymomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12713021609857759027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-58732313632386893352008-02-07T10:26:00.000-05:002008-02-07T10:26:00.000-05:00The Big "D" is a huge downer. If I have any idea ...The Big "D" is a huge downer. If I have any idea that is coming, that it's brewing, I will NOT THE LEAVE THE HOUSE FOR ANY REASON. I will even leave somewhere I JUST ARRIVED if I get the gurglies!!<BR/><BR/>HallieWonderful World of Weinershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12704174092907120103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7494202605629550918.post-31710783945858407192008-02-07T10:20:00.000-05:002008-02-07T10:20:00.000-05:00Hopefully this means that they have far more resou...Hopefully this means that they have far more resources at this larger school. In our rural area we have few resources and there is talk of more and more cuts for SE all the time. I hate that! As a teacher in this district I am continually peeved that we hold expectations high for our children but we give them so little to help them reach them. Very frustrating. <BR/><BR/>Hopefully it will all work out for you--it is a good sign that the principal talked with you and explained. <BR/><BR/>I hope all works out and you won't need to go all "mama bear" on them (but if you do, I'm with ya!). <BR/><BR/>Ooh . . . yeah, and good idea with the cookies!Laskihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12001998549713092381noreply@blogger.com